They say the first year is the hardest.I disagree. My mom died on November 6th last year. When I look …
Understanding Ambiguous Grief: Healing in the Ashes
Ambiguous grief is the loss that doesn’t make sense. It’s when what’s lost isn’t really gone, but it’s no longer …
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For Those Days When You Don’t Get the Choice to Stay in Bed
Last night, I sat in a friend’s family room. Shoes kicked off, no makeup, kids interrupting kind of conversation. We …
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How Trauma Lives in the Body—and How Pilates Helped Me Let It Go
In the whirlwind of grief and trauma, I found peace in the most unexpected place—not in fixing everything, not in …
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When You’re Tired of Holding It All Together
I get to make dinner for my family every night. That slight shift in language—“get to” instead of “have to” …
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Don’t Wait for Time to Heal You. It Won’t.
I recently became a certified Pilates instructor. It’s not something I imagined doing in this season of life, but here …
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5 Sneaky Tactics That Keep You Stuck in Grief
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18 I never …
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Are You Spiritually Bypassing Your Emotions?
Several months after my daughter left for college, my mom died. Suddenly, my world got smaller. With my husband working …
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How Being Mindful of the Present Moment Offers Us Hope
If you lean in close, you can hear it—the desperate cry of people lost in despair, grieving what they thought …
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How to Celebrate Mother’s Day Without Your Mom
Over the past few years, I have seen cancer invade my friend Rachel’s mom’s body, eventually resulting in the death …
